There is lots of cross over on the dating scene, some people are just looking for easy no strings sex, some are looking for uncomplicated friendship while others are looking for love. There is a cross over between adult dating and swinging, although that might surprise you to know! There are lots of singles that enjoy swinging and likewise there is lots of adult daters that are looking for uncomplicated sex. So the great and easy answer is to join a site that caters to both and then you have the option to mix and match as your heart desires! Maybe one night if you're feeling frisky you can go join a couple for a no holes bared sex session and on another night meet a single guy for drinks in a bar and a chat. Thats the thing about swingers, there are lots that are just looking for fun and friendship as much as they are sex. You just have to join, take your time and relax, its the same if you looking for dates or wife swapping. Most of all you just have to have fun!